I actually wrote this post yesterday, but Typepad kindly ate it, so here I am for version 2.0! So, Sunday night we went to my mom's to pick out and decorate the tree. She always gets us each an ornament, so I thought that this year it was high time I make her one of her own.
This tiny spool of thread was kicking around my studio, and I knew that would somehow be a part of it...
Voila! A little sewing mouse is born.
I felted her body out of mousy brown-grey wool, and sewed the mini apron out of vintage findings. The eyes are just straight pins (ala Sarah's snowman project) and she is mounted on a sweatery button. I ran a big piece of embroidery floss up through the felted body and secured it in a loop (for hanging purposes).
I really love her.
You know who else I love? Nigella.
You know that...and there is a fighting chance that you love her, too. Or that you care about and are concerned for women in general. Either way, this is absurd and made me rant and rave for oh, about an hour yesterday. What kind of a culture-damaged person would demonise a Nigella? And I don't really give a fig about this person, but what the heck? Leave the girl alone.
I know this isn't a new war, but it's really making me sad lately. It's like the women who complained that those "controversial" Dove ad campaigns didn't "give them anything to strive for" (I can't find a link right now, I'm sorry!).
I would be so happy for my potential daughter, thin or chubby, to see Nigella on television...someone bright and lovely and talented and beautiful in her own, self-possessed way. I don't like that saying: "real women" have curves, because it's exclusive and inaccurate...I think real, happy women are active, try to love life, and don't base it on denying themselves. And they are all sorts of sizes. Thank you for listening about this...it's really weighing on my thoughts right now.
Happy Tuesday!
Tell all the girls you know that they're the kind of porridge Goldilocks would eat.
Comments (72)
I purposely kept fashion mags away from our house when my daughter was in her younger years for that very reason. To many images, to many bad bad messages. She heard enough on tv. She grew up to be healthy and appreciative of the body she's got and knows what the industry does to the pics to make models look like they do. We have to protect our wee girls!
nora · December 04, 2007 at 11:48 AM
"weighing on your mind" :) was that meant as a pun?
I haven't read what you linked to cause I don't have time, but it sounds like something that would not make me happy so I'll stay away. I completely agree with everything you said and I have felt that way too, about the "real women have curves" saying. I just could never find the words to express my thoughts like you did.
PS love the mouse :) Love everything you do!
that girl · December 04, 2007 at 11:50 AM
Well said. Some people are so unhappy with their own self that they have to put down others to make themselves feel better. It's sad.
On a happy note, that is one adorable mouse ornament. I bet your mom loved it. :o)
Denise · December 04, 2007 at 11:53 AM
I love Nigella, too, and I think she looks beautiful in that photo.
Jill · December 04, 2007 at 11:54 AM
I watched Nigella last night, it's part of my "t.v. night". I only have one t.v. night, and Nigella is very much part of it.
She could quite literally be reciting the telephone directory and would watch her, I think she's lovely.
Erica-Jane · December 04, 2007 at 12:06 PM
Well said. If only I had Nigella's looks and waistline ;)
And just so you know, you have a package coming to you. Nothing special, just something I thought you could use.
Stephanie Wheeler · December 04, 2007 at 12:07 PM
I think Nigella is awesome and I love her cooking shows. Ironically, my favourite time to watch cooking shows is while working out at the gym. It's somehow motivating. I think my favourite episode is still a summer one where she uses a lot of lemons. I wanted to use lemons in everything after that.
I think Nigella is lovely, face and body. I've always thought so. Her kids are often in her shows and I associate her shape with warm, loving motherliness and good food.
Marie · December 04, 2007 at 12:10 PM
So well said! I love you sites and have shared them both with my teenage daughter. We both love your fashion style. It adorable, unique, and REAL. I am so tired of seeing magazines and other media filled with images of professional models wearing high end designer clothes that do not reflect the way real people dress. Everything about your style is so real and genuine. And this is so refreshing in a world where so is just what someone in New York picked out to be popular this year. Thank you for being you and for sharing it with the rest of us.
And the mouse is really cute, too!
Kineret Willowgreene · December 04, 2007 at 12:10 PM
You tell'em girl! Real women have curves and are proud of it! Love the mouse ornament.
P.S. Keep an eye on your mailbox.
Michelle Anderson · December 04, 2007 at 12:17 PM
I have not seen or read the thing on Nigella yet (I will just because I need a good rant right now), but I love her. Sometimes I just sit down with her cookbooks for a moment and I always feel so much better. Plus I love her cooking sensibilities.
The mouse is adorable. I must learn to needle felt. Is it hard to do?
Angela · December 04, 2007 at 12:23 PM
"And they are all sorts of sizes" and just lovely, all of them! :) What a lovely little post, indeed! :) I adore Nigella....I wait for her each Sunday! Loving your wee mousey! :)
Marjorie · December 04, 2007 at 12:45 PM
I think this also reflects on attacks on women being too thin as well. I'm really sick of people tagging women with bulimia and so forth just because they have lost weight or are just skinny. Body size attacks should just not be!
Bukey A. · December 04, 2007 at 12:55 PM
I think this also reflects on attacks on women being too thin as well. I'm really sick of people tagging women with bulimia and so forth just because they have lost weight or are just skinny. Body size attacks should just not be!
Bukey A. · December 04, 2007 at 12:56 PM
Great blog! You are right, real women come in all shapes and sizes and there is nothing wrong with that!!
Pink · December 04, 2007 at 01:11 PM
Oh yeah, the mouse is VERY cute!!!!! I'm sure your mom will love her!
Pink · December 04, 2007 at 01:13 PM
very cute little mouse!
Melissa · December 04, 2007 at 01:16 PM
The mouse is adorable and I love the idea of handmade tree ornaments. I still have a bunch of mine from when I was little (what's left of them, anyway). I make sure to put them on the tree every year. I wish I had the time to make some new ones, but...not yet. I think Nigella is lovely as well. Life is too short...eat, drink and be merry!..and nerdy. :)
Danielle · December 04, 2007 at 01:42 PM
Thanks for the links - I think Nigella did a great job speaking out for herself, not that she should have to, but she was really well spoken. And the other link - about Hewitt - what a stupid article! Amazing.
Anyway, I love your little mouse! My mom always sends us each an ornament, too.
Prudence · December 04, 2007 at 01:49 PM
I lost a truck load of weight earlier this year - I have been appalled at the number of people who have begun to talk to me now that I am a size 12. Needless to say none of these women have become bosom buddies.
Women who judge each other like this need to grow up a bit.
J
x
snapdragon · December 04, 2007 at 01:59 PM
I lost a truck load of weight earlier this year - I have been appalled at the number of people who have begun to talk to me now that I am a size 12. Needless to say none of these women have become bosom buddies.
Women who judge each other like this need to grow up a bit.
J
x
snapdragon · December 04, 2007 at 02:00 PM
I just wanted to let you know that your shop was mentioned here (http://www.limenviolet.com/blog/?p=1640)in their holiday gift guide pdf in case you hadn't seen it yet. Cheers!
Mouse · December 04, 2007 at 02:19 PM
UGH! That issue makes me angry too and yes, I definitely blame other women more than men. There is not ONE man that I know that is into "skinny" women. We really need to get over our own insecurities and start encouraging other women to just live a healthy life!
And your mousey is cute too. Your mom will love it. :)
Marilyn · December 04, 2007 at 02:30 PM
Thank you for a wonderful, inspiring post! I too get so fired up about the issue of "fat". I think Nigella is a beautiful woman - both inside and out. It's unfortunate that we live in a world where people are judged so critically on their looks.
PS - lovely little mouse...
Kristin · December 04, 2007 at 02:42 PM
Have you ever heard MIKA's song...'Big Girl you are beautiful'.....I love it!
Jennifer
Jennifer · December 04, 2007 at 03:18 PM
These issues are harder when you have children not just daughters. You are faced with teaching your girls to appreciate and feed the body they have and making sure your boys know that women come in all sizes not just the ones they see on TV. It's really difficult and from a very young age too.
I have four kids and I have had more comments on my body, whether people are picking on how big my ass has gotten or how thin I still am, than on how happy and well taken care of my kids are.
Wanett · December 04, 2007 at 03:19 PM
It's disgraceful. Nigella is as lovely as they come, and I hate how hard it is these days to be pleased with the body you have.
Maddy · December 04, 2007 at 03:23 PM
I ranted a little bit about this story, too. It's a terrible state we live in when people are publically humiliated for being healthy.
Nicole · December 04, 2007 at 03:30 PM
Thank you so much for posting about this (re: Nigella). I haven't been able to read Jezebel for a number of days & missed it.
Personally, I adore Nigella. She is extraordinarily intelligent and fun and lovely in every way. I love the conversational style of her recipes so much. She is a joy. The fact that she is gorgeous to look at, too, is just a pleasant bonus.
I honestly don't know why some people get so obsessed about the weight of others. I never think of such things when I meet people. The beauty of a person's spirit matters so much more to me than the measurement of their waistline.
Mary · December 04, 2007 at 03:41 PM
i struggle all the time with teaching my 15 year old daughter about body issues.she has curves, lucky thing and me...? unfortunately, i'm a stick thin type who can eat absolutely anything. i know many people envy this... personally i've always wished for at least a few of the bones to not stick out quite so much. ;)
burd · December 04, 2007 at 03:57 PM
When I clicked over to the Love Hewitt article the Dove ad was running next to teh article. Kind of funny.
LOVE the mouse!
Emily · December 04, 2007 at 04:40 PM
Thank for such a thought-provoking post! I think about these things a lot during this time of year when I seem to be hungry and eating more high-calorie food more than usual.
That little mouse is so cute I can't stand it!
andrea · December 04, 2007 at 04:47 PM
dang! nigella looks totally GORGEOUS in that pic, what are people on about? Seriously, are we NEVER going to let skinny go? Now, Twiggy seems like a very sweet woman and all, but some days I wish she and Kate Moss had never been born. Or discovered. Though yes, I know the skinny trend predates them.
You know, I was reading JK Rowling's website this summer (like the obsessed HP fan that I am) and I came across this in one of her journally bits: "...but then, you might retort, what do I know about the pressure to be skinny? I'm not in the business of being judged by my looks, what with being a writer and earning my living by using my brain..."
and I thought to myself, RIGHT ON, Rowling, you're dead right. Wouldn't it be nice if all of us were judged by the qualities of who we are and what we do, not by how we look? I inwardly thanked my lucky stars that I'm working toward (hopefully) being a professor one day, where we're judged by the qualities of our books, too.
But now, here is Nigella, a woman who, granted, is on TV, but she's here to tell us about FOOD, to offer us comfort and encouragement and inspiration. She's a creative woman who makes her living by her brains. And yet here she is, under this same scrutiny.
I feel like there should be a petition somewhere. Or an official file. I, _____, hereby abstain from the aesthetic cult of skinny. All individuals (including myself) must henceforth refrain from any comparisons of my body to said cult's twisted ideal. Failure to comply will result in the offending body being stuffed with three dozen doughnuts.
sarah · December 04, 2007 at 04:50 PM
Ahh, such a wonderful, and compleatly true thought. Real women are tall and short and curvy and skinny and have freckles and birthmarks and scars. And I for one believe that a real woman (or, to be compleatly fair, a real man as well) is just as beautiful as a human can be, just as she is.
And the mouse is adorable. Such a lovely tradition, with the ornaments!
Cameron · December 04, 2007 at 05:12 PM
Thanks for bringing this to our attention. It's such a typical nasty British gossip piece. The press there can be so mean. I'm with everyone else here... Nigella is fabulous, inside and outside. I think her body is fan.tas.tic. And I'm not just saying that because it's quite similar to mine. : )
Shannon · December 04, 2007 at 05:40 PM
Oh God...you dont see them talking about Emeril Lagasse or Mario Batali's bodies. She's not even close to fat she's normal..above normal actually..ugh..I bet half those people who write that stuff are three times her size or cranky people who haven't eaten a meal in years!
The mouse is very cute by the way..any chance we'll be seeing more like her in the shop soon? :)
~Christine
Du Buh Du Designs · December 04, 2007 at 05:59 PM
As a woman recovering from an eating disorder I can say that I love the weight I have put on. And I don't feel that anyone should insult anyone who has a healthy weight. Extremely underweight is terrible, obesity is terrible; none are "pretty".
I am glad to see that women are taking back control of their bodies (J.L.Hewitt, normal-sized models, Kate Winslet, to name a few).
Adorable mouse BTW!!! I'm a lurking-fan!
Zreekee · December 04, 2007 at 06:15 PM
Love the mousy! I also love Nigella and don't even think I can read something negative about her. She is so lovely and graceful and so are you Miss Emily. I just love what you said at the end. I second that (I don't exclusive sorts of saying either).
tiffany · December 04, 2007 at 06:50 PM
Very interesting post today. I love your mouse ornament. So precious. I'm sure your mom will love it.
The "fat" issue. Makes people talk. You know, most of the painters from the middle ages and the renaissance had female models who were curvy and beautiful. Look at Botticelli, Michelangelo or Raphael's paintings. In those days, skinny meant sick or poor and nothing else.
Just my take on it.
MissKoolAid · December 04, 2007 at 07:30 PM
Nigella has a rockin' hourglass body -- and those Dove ads made me so happy when I saw them because the women looked so natural and lovely. Like the one above me, they remind me of the women in DaVinci's paintings.
Ann · December 04, 2007 at 07:37 PM
i'm not gonna lie...i have body issues. i was skinny, now i'm curvy. i've been on both sides and neither of them has made me any happier. what's made me happier is learning how to eat better and how to dress my curves. nigella is so gorgeous. her body is absolutely perfect and so womanly.
i totally understand what she said about feeling more self concience around women!!!
thanks anyways emily for such wonderful words!
greeneyedgirls · December 04, 2007 at 08:20 PM
p.s. my 9 year old son said if he gets married someday...she will HAVE to have a soft round belly like mommas. he can't believe i grew him and his brother in there!
greeneyedgirls · December 04, 2007 at 08:27 PM
What is sadder (or even more upsetting) are all those truly clueless comments on that blog after the Nigella story. Lots of chicks saying that "yes she IS fat," etc.
I can't imagine the interior lives of women like that, and what they most say to their own reflections when they look in the mirror.
KellyS · December 04, 2007 at 08:29 PM
AMEN to your little rant!!! :) I couldn't agree with you more. :) I'm going through a really tough period right now with my weight, and it always is so hurtful to see people rant against such clearly BEAUTIFUL women like Nigella. :p Not to mention it just feeds the countless women who struggle daily with ED's and low self-esteem and image. *sigh* I could go on and on, as this is a topic that is very personal for me, but I won't. Anyway, I think Nigella is such a lovely person and so gorgeous (I'd kill to have her confidence!! lol!)--its just a shame.
And little miss mouse is soooo cute!!!! :) I've recently been making ornaments for family members too; though not as creatively cute as your's! :)
Hope you're having a lovely evening!
Casey · December 04, 2007 at 08:30 PM
Miss E,
Oh my gosh!! I LOVE Nigella!! I am sooooo sick of all the chubby, thin, thing!
Thank you for your post!! Yes yes yes!! I so agree with you!! I think about all of the times I have been thin in my life and realize, I was miserable not in love and sad and depressed!!! Oh it all stinks about this topic doesn't it...
It is all about being happy inside and feeling emotionally free of saddness and just being who we are. Enjoying life... Argh.. Okay, I will shut up now!!
LOOOVE your little mouse !! xoxox
A Fanciful Twist · December 04, 2007 at 10:13 PM
I had no idea the Dove ads are controversial! I also had no idea some women were saying it "gives them nothing to strive for." Wow. Crazy. How absolutely crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monica · December 04, 2007 at 11:03 PM
"Strive?" I just do not understand!!!!!! I never will.
Monica · December 04, 2007 at 11:06 PM
I completely agree with you. I just wrote a paper for my college English class about how advertisements in magazines can further that thinking. Its really amazing to see those connections and yet there are no positive ones. Dove actually plans to feature women who have battled with eating disorders in their up coming advertisements. I think more companies need to stop alienating people and realize that we all come in different shapes and sizes.
P.s. I love Nigella and that chocolate loaf that she makes is just about the best thing ever.
Kayla · December 04, 2007 at 11:12 PM
Being pregnant has made me accept myself even MORE for what I AM and not how I look. How sad that it is the focus of so many peoples life. What a waste. Thanks for your post!
Cherry Tree Lane · December 05, 2007 at 12:15 AM
what a cute little mouse!!
momo · December 05, 2007 at 04:22 AM
Cherry Tree Lane, I was going to say the same thing. I usually fluctuate between skinny and chubby but now, being 7 months pregnant, I feel the sexiest I have ever felt because there's no need to be worrying what I look like! My partner gives me so much more "attention" when I'm bigger - I think that say's enough :)
Emily I adore that little mouse!!
cassie · December 05, 2007 at 05:45 AM
Well said! and well done! your mummy is a very lucky one! I 'd be wonderfully happy to see a fair-haired girl with bobbed hair and grey eyes with a horse, a hen or a rabbit, or even sitting in a cosy library ... in your etsy shop!
( sorry for my poor english, I write from France:) have a nice day !!
pauline guerin · December 05, 2007 at 07:06 AM
YES! I love Nigella too! She's a brilliant writer and soooo beautiful (which counts less but must be said),You keep telling the truth!!
Normally a lurker, but keen to further the cause, Melissa
Melissa · December 05, 2007 at 08:10 AM
It's so interesting when Nigella said that she never feels "fat" around men, just around other women. It's so sad. I love Nigella, I don't like most of the food she makes since I'm vegan but I must say that I really love that she loves food...cause I love food...and I'm going to eat it :)
Ana · December 05, 2007 at 09:03 AM
What a wonderful post. I am 100 pounds overweight myself, and for health reasons, need to address that situation STAT. But Nigella? Nigella is what I aspire to. Not just in her size and her looks -- although both are beautiful -- but in her unabashed pleasure in herself and the things around her. Her boundless confidence and self-acceptance should be an inspiration to us all.
As are you, my dear -- hope you have a wonderful holiday!
Kara Lewis · December 05, 2007 at 09:23 AM
Your little mouse reminds me of when I was little and obsessed with mice. I would constantly draw them, making birthday cards for my mom with 10 tiny mice holding up a gigantic birthday cake. I think it was watching Tom and Jerry that did it.
And I love Nigella, too. As I get older I care less about my looks and more about my accomplishments and whether my behavior reflects my aspirations of who I want to be. And it's been much more rewarding.
Amanda · December 05, 2007 at 10:16 AM
Amen.
Alexandra W. · December 05, 2007 at 10:24 AM
Wow. I think she is both beautiful and charming. Its amazing what lengths we will go to to tear one another down, in effort to make ourselves feel better (which, seldom if ever works). I am working on becoming a healthier person - I know my current weight and lifestyle is not healthy. But I have no desire to starve myself or fit someone else's image. I can remember back to junior high school, when I was like a size 6 or 8 - I could wear a bikini, but I thought I was fat... like HUGE. My sister was a "0" and tan goddess at the time, so my pot-belly and fair skin seemed less-than desirable. I know that the belief I was fat got into my head and made me give up trying even back then. Now I am having to work on changing my mental image of myself, and my expectations of my body. The fact that we feed these messages to each other as women is appaling. I am not a mother, but I try to instill in all of the girls whose lives I have influence in that they are beautiful and significant just as they are.
Kimberly · December 05, 2007 at 10:33 AM
Amen, sister!
and kudos to your little sewing mouse!
Amy M · December 05, 2007 at 10:49 AM
Emily, thank you so much for saying:
"I don't like that saying: "real women" have curves, because it's exclusive and inaccurate...I think real, happy women are active, try to love life, and don't base it on denying themselves. And they are all sorts of sizes."
I was very thin as a teenager and still thin now, just not quite as thing. I'm tired of so called "women's magazines" and others insulting thing women while pumping up others. It's just as hurtful and damaging. Thin or not, there's not a lot you can do about your body shape or size, so please world, don't call thin women "coat hangers" or unattractive. Teenagers are listening and their hearts are breaking.
Noelle · December 05, 2007 at 11:40 AM
Well said Noelle (and Emily for making a good point to begin with in blogland!) It seems acceptable to many to make negative comments about thin women...but it's just the other side of the same coin. I hope the women that complain about 'skinny' women will take a moment and understand how awful it is to hear any sort of personal comments that judge your body. We should all be on the same side.
And I cannot NOT comment on the adorable lil' mouse...so cute! :)
Sylvie · December 05, 2007 at 01:06 PM
I love Nigella, I'm totally addicted to her cookbooks. It bothers me that mlmost every time she puts out a new book, she is under such harsh scruntiny, because other women who are either don't look like her or don't cook like her feel threatened. I think that as women, we really don't do enough to support each other, and instead we hack apart anyone who is not exactly like us as a false version of a woman. And it bothers me that women are taught to judge their bodies and other women's bodies so harshly.
Your mouse is cutest thing ever!! You know if you put those in your shop, ther would be a stampede to Etsy!
Julie · December 05, 2007 at 01:32 PM
Eeek! I'm in love with that mouse!!!!
Jennifer at pink ric rac · December 05, 2007 at 01:42 PM
snapdragon--i also have lost some weight and am currently a size 12, and i cannot believe how many people smile, talk to me more and just generally are nicer to me. i hope and pray i never treat someone differently because of what they look like. our bodies are individual works of art, all beautiful in their own unique way.
Blonde Pear · December 05, 2007 at 04:27 PM
I think Nigella is a beautiful, gorgeous woman. At my work, we would talk about her shows and I tell you, the guys who listened in to our conversation would say that she makes them drool, and what a sexy lady she is.
The only people who put pressure on women to be thin, is sadly, other women.
My husband loves my curves and while I try desperately to cover up my wobbly belly from having 2 beautiful children, my husband thinks that is my best bit. He tells me it's womanly, beautiful, and that this body made those two precious kids that we call our own.
Toni Brockliss · December 05, 2007 at 05:57 PM
I would just love to get to the point where women's bodies/weights are not a topic of conversation. It is rare that a man is singled out for his weight - men come in all shapes and sizes and it is simply not commented upon.
I think this media blitzing has to stop - and I also think women need to feel better about themselves and quit slamming other women. "Skinny bitch" and "fat cow" are terms I hear women utter quite often, and it makes me shudder.
R
Rachel · December 05, 2007 at 07:17 PM
Jesus Christ, that's adorable. A delightful creation, very inspiring, Emily.
Treacle · December 05, 2007 at 08:09 PM
all of us girls with curves should just band together and take over the world.
:)
stilettoheights · December 06, 2007 at 09:05 AM
Um, men are just as bad at judging women by their size as women are.
That said, I didn't know of Nigella prior to your post, but she is a very beautiful woman and it is incredibly depressing that anyone would comment on her size.
I'm currently living in Sri Lanka where Bollywood is king. When I traveled to India in the late 1990's by traveling companion would constantly tease me that I was going to be snatched up by Bollywood produces because I have a rather shapely form (and long hair), much like the Bollywood starlets.
This same friend recently e-mailed to bring up the old joke ("have you been signed yet?") and I had to report, much to my dismay, that Bollywood has gone Hollywood. Isn't this sad that in a culture that once revered all sizes of women is now focusing on the extremely skinny. You would think that after decades of discussion this situation would be getting better, not worse.
The problem is that we as consumers do not insist on change. We continue to go to movies where only beautiful women are cast (but the men can look like anything), we continue to watch shows like "Beauty and the Geek," "America's Top Model" and well, any show on television really. We continue to allow the media to tell us that Jennifer Love Hewitt looks big (when she looks skinny in my opinion) and Nigella needs to loose weight. Adding comments to this post is a start, but real change has to made with your pocket books. Or at least write to the publications at fault and voice your opinion of their narrow descriptions of beauty.
Jessica Leas · December 06, 2007 at 10:36 AM
Good post. I love Nigella, she creates beautiful and delicious food, and her love/lust relationship with food has many of the men in my life glued to her show. She is smart, seductive and sexy-it's a shame these gossip folks cannot be the same.
Kelly · December 06, 2007 at 11:33 AM
She is gorgeous, and I LOVE her body. I've been just as upset lately about the hooplah surrounding Jennifer Love Hewitt. She also has an awesome body and people are so cruel. They are both beautiful, successful, women and more power to them! And they are NOT FAT!
Kelli · December 06, 2007 at 01:21 PM
She is gorgeous, and I LOVE her body. I've been just as upset lately about the hooplah surrounding Jennifer Love Hewitt. She also has an awesome body and people are so cruel. They are both beautiful, successful, women and more power to them! And they are NOT FAT!
Kelli · December 06, 2007 at 01:21 PM
Real women care more about the content than wrapping paper.
erin · December 06, 2007 at 06:46 PM