Happy Friday + A little note about me

Really, hmm. Now I don't think the bloggy world has to be one big lovefest or anything but if you don't like what you're reading, change the channel. Just my two cents. And I don't know about the snobby, or self-righteous, or hipster-y you but I do know that I think you are completely darling for what that's worth.

Mama Urchin · January 19, 2007 at 03:47 PM

Emily,
Ignore people like that. Why did she even bother to comment at all? Relish in who you are and embrace your indiviuality. To me your "little world" is refreshing, inspiring and delightful. Seems to me that somebody is letting the "green-eyed monster" out through words. P.S. Check your etsy conversations.

Michelle A. · January 19, 2007 at 03:59 PM

Hullo,
I found my way to your blog this winter and was instantly enchanted by your wall painting of trees. I've been dropping by since then, and I have to say that I always enjoy your writing and dedication to making even the simple things in life beautiful. So, bravo to you for knowing not to pay attention to the nay-sayers, because whenever you decide to be yourself and nevermind the mass opinion, there is always going to be someone who thinks you're a snob.
P.S. Carnivale rocks the Depression! - have you signed the petition urging them to bring it back or at least make a movie?

Caitlyn · January 19, 2007 at 04:00 PM

oh, people are weird. Personally your blog is so cute and quirky and honest and fun, I find myself wanting to be you when I grow up.
Sadly I am 35. Good thing I believe in reincarnation ;)

Amber · January 19, 2007 at 04:08 PM

I’m reminded of a post you wrote quite a while back when you were living in the city…a day when some guys on the street were shouting their comments…I think you noted a friend’s blog..she was talking about decorating her apartment to make it her little safe place in the world…Anyway, it struck me that this person’s comment would just shatter that little bubble of safety that I draw around myself from this world. Blogs are a public way of sharing our private lives, but that should be respected. My take is that people strive to discover their true selves at some point in their lives. It seems crazy, but sometimes it takes a while to become comfortable in our own skin. To me you exude confidence and honesty and enjoy life and the people and things in it. Enjoy this and keep being you. Frankly, she wouldn’t keep coming back if she wasn’t intrigued by this in you. I can remember when I was a child and a girl was really nasty to me at school. My Mom told me that the girl was just jealous of something I was getting to do. When exactly do we get off this playground of life? Anyway, I love the blogging world. I too have very few people in my “real life” that get my love for creating, photography, clothes, thrifting, buttons, cute fabric, vintage finds, etc. I’m so thankful for this little world I have found online with so many kindred spirits to encourage and inspire!

Karen June · January 19, 2007 at 04:09 PM

"Being a nerd, which is to say going too far and caring too much about a subject, is the best way to make friends I know." - Sarah Vowell

Leaving the comment probably left her with an equally bad feeling as it left you. It turns out that making character assessments from on high is never as good feeling as you think it's gonna be in your head.

b. · January 19, 2007 at 04:11 PM

I think the appropriate comment back to the comment bomber would be 'Fiddle dee dee'.

Sticks and stones, love, sticks and stones.

KiWi · January 19, 2007 at 04:15 PM

Delurking to agree with all of the above! I love your style and your forthrightness and general refusal to be anyone but yourself. Would that we could all be so pleased to be who we are! There's a place for constructive criticism, but back-handed compliments and bubble-bursting aren't part of that at all. Keep on being you, dear. We love you for it.

Rita · January 19, 2007 at 04:31 PM

You are what you are - charming, enchanting, and talented.

If that makes you a 'hipster' to some, then so be it - you know, and the rest of us know, that you are so much more than that.

marielle · January 19, 2007 at 04:33 PM

Just like a quote I have on my blog -
"I do not understand how anyone can live without some small place of enchantment to turn to." Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings

I think you are just darling and the thought you are, what did she write, snobby, um, has never crossed my mind. Besides, I thought the whole idea of a blog was to write about yourself and the world you live in, the things you do.... hmmm, am I wrong?

XOXOXOXO
Beth

Beth · January 19, 2007 at 04:35 PM

Actually, it's your honesty and somewhat lack of "editing" that I really love and admire about your blog.

I know this is just a comment among many (you have a whole troupe of admirers), but I read so many blogs where everyone just has the most perfect of perfect lives, nothing ever goes wrong, and they're never a bit..down, or blah, or any of the full range of human emotions besides blissfully happy.

You're very beautiful, and very talented, and sure and proud of your own style, which, by the way, I love. I've never read anything by you that reflects what the other lady wrote.

So, uh, you win at life, me thinks.

Vanda · January 19, 2007 at 04:43 PM

Putting one's self "out there", for want of a better phrase, is one of the hardest things to do in this life. Creating a 'personal' space that is available to all and sundry on this world wide web of ours, invites viewers/readers positive and otherwise - which is an uncomfortable reality of public domains. I think it takes great courage to carry on regardless of this fact.

I think you have created an amazing, honest and self-effacing insight into you life, loves and passions and I think your energy and enthusiasm for things you love is a great thing. This is a strength to be admired, not criticised.

anonymous · January 19, 2007 at 04:43 PM

A blog is about the writer and what the writer loves. We love what we know about you and are enchanted, interested, and enjoying you & your words very much...Obviously you are a really powerful person because you made a huge impact on someone else, jealousy is a very bad thing, very bad indeed. Hmm, I feel sorry for people like that. But, on to brighter tales...Please tell us more about your lovely treasures, art and more about you!!!!xoxoxo

Vanessa · January 19, 2007 at 04:45 PM

Hi Emily,
I've been reading your blog for quite a while although I don't comment - I'm a bit shy :). But after reading that silly and spiteful comment from some silly girl, I just wanted to let you know from a fellow dork, how much I love your blog. I love to make things, to create, especially clothes; I spend hours crafting with the nieces and then, when I have a moment, I check what my blog "friends" are up to! Also, please post more clothes, altered or otherwise - did I say I love clothes...Thank you for blogging Emily - virtual hugs, Maria

Maria · January 19, 2007 at 04:46 PM

filo!(chilean expression), don't worry about this people who are in everywhere including here in my country ...so so far away of your home

Carmen · January 19, 2007 at 04:54 PM

Oh, Emily! Just ignore this person. They obviously wanted to get a rise out of you. Everyone, unfortunately, gets a negative comment eventually. I think it shows chracter on your part that you left it on your post instead of deleting it and hiding it away. But I feel sad that there are people like that...

Persephone Snyder · January 19, 2007 at 04:55 PM

I began reading your blog about 3 or 4 months ago. (Actually, my first time commenting. I just have to show my support!) I feel bad that someone could say something so vicious and rude.

I ADORE reading your blog because it is so up-lifting. I have to check... pretty much daily... it's an amusing read! You've helped inspire me with my personal blog, and my etsy shop.

So, thank you for all the wonderful ideas and notions you have posted :) Keep your personality shinning through your writing!

Samantha · January 19, 2007 at 05:09 PM

You are the most wonderful creative person I know! Please ignore those ppl who think you are anything less then that!

Jordan · January 19, 2007 at 05:12 PM

Silly, mean, jealous, little girl with nothing better to do with her time.
I only just started reading your blog before Christmas, but I love it and your take on the world, it makes me very happy. And if it didn't I wouldn't read it and I certainly wouldn't bother posting pointlessly critical comments.

Lilley · January 19, 2007 at 05:12 PM

Emily, I feel the same way about my blogging, and I wouldn't appreciate it if someone left a mean comment on my personal blog. Thanks for sharing all about you with us here. I sure enjoy reading your blog every day!

Erika · January 19, 2007 at 05:17 PM

My sweet sweet Emily, I love you for who you are! You enchant my world!
Big hug from the Netherlands!

esther · January 19, 2007 at 05:19 PM

i LOVE that sarah vowell quote. oh lord. and i think that mama u. is right: if you don't like what you are watching (reading), change the damn channel. she's more of a poop head for questioning you as a person by commenting as you could EVER be for calling yourself a nerd.

lisa · January 19, 2007 at 05:21 PM

I just started reading your blog and I LOVE IT!!! You are great! keep being you.

Knit Tattoo · January 19, 2007 at 05:27 PM

You are perfect and this is your blog. What is wrong with some people??

I pop by to see what you are up to most days. Thank you for putting this blog together, it is a lovely little world you share. My favorite posts are the ones you write about clothes. I too, love clothes and the fun involved in making them perfect.

BTW, have you ever read The Red Shoes by Karen Elizabeth Gordon? If not, I think you'd love it.
MUCH admiration,
Alison

Alison Latimer · January 19, 2007 at 05:27 PM

Hi Emily

You are kooky and friendly like a friend of mine and we love your blog.

Don't worry about the crazy people out there - just jealous.

Keep it up & nerds unite
Naomi

NaomiM · January 19, 2007 at 05:29 PM

Yeah, it's all been said. I know it's incredibly silly, but I also don't have many 'real life' friends who appreciate the small, the historical, or the cute. I often feel that I'm too old to be so concerned with my aesthetic surroundings but I always feel better when I visit your site and read what you have to say about the function of creating your own world. Your blog is a daily highlight for me and even though we really don't interact I consider you a friend.

But that's all been said before--no one pointed out the logic flaw in this woman's comment--she accuses you of limiting yourself, which I just can't wrap my head around! Your entire aesthetic is incredibly layered and interested, it's one of a kind.

Cirilia · January 19, 2007 at 05:37 PM

i'll tell you once more that i love you and your blog. and look at all this other love you've got! you are one lucky nerd. :)

risa · January 19, 2007 at 05:41 PM

It's disheartening to me that someone left such a judgmental and mean comment. I guess some people only feel good when they knock down others? I completely agree that you should be whoever you are on your blog. And you are lovely. =)

caitlyn · January 19, 2007 at 05:43 PM

Emily,
I love your blog. I've never thought you self righteous.

Dawn · January 19, 2007 at 05:44 PM

Dear Emily,

I've just stumbled over your blog and I love it! The way your walls are all different, bold colours (mine are all white BLAH!). Your personal aesthetic, just lovely. Everything's been said in the above comments, but I am going to re-iterate- "Sticks and stones love, sticks and stones." (It sounds really cool when you say it in a Jack Sparrow accent, too!)

Rock on Emily!

Anna · January 19, 2007 at 05:46 PM

Aww, people can be so annoying.

I adore your blog! Keep writing about the things that you love - it's what makes your blog so fun and interesting to read! :)

Laura · January 19, 2007 at 05:47 PM

emily -

from one emily to another ... i like everyone else here love your blog and i am so in awe of the things you create (duh, i've bought your stuff). sometimes people like to pigeonhole others because it makes their understanding of the world eaiser...too bad for them. they miss out on so much. keep encouraged! your blog is awesome, your sense of style is smashing and you're so amazingly creative!

emily2 · January 19, 2007 at 05:53 PM

Dearest Emily,

I read your blog daily, worry when you vanish for a few days, and wish I had a younger sister like you. (I do have two perfectly nice younger sisters, but neither of them quite "gets" me--I'm definitely the family "oddball"). My favorite thing to do at the babysitter's when I was a kid was to play with the buttons in her button tin--I especially liked to pick out all the buttons with rhinestones. So I guess I've been a nerd since childhood! Anyway we think you're great, and wished you lived close enough to come over for tea. (And advice--Henry has informed me that he wants me to paint trees on his wall "like Emily Black Apple's" when I finish stripping all the wallpaper off. Yikes!)

Sending big hugs from MA,

Kate, Nora & Henry

Kate · January 19, 2007 at 05:53 PM

Hey Emily, I have been busy and missed your blog for awhile and now I discover this whole woo-haa. Just ignore the negative comments and look at the positive ones here it outweighs it tenfold.Your gorgeous.

Kelly Zarb · January 19, 2007 at 05:54 PM

Ah, if only everyone would just follow the Golden Rule, the world really would be a nicer place, wouldn't it? However I guess the bad is there so we can really see and appreciate the good. :)

lwm · January 19, 2007 at 05:56 PM

Don't worry about other people decide you are. They are going to do that anyway, and worrying about it robs you of your right to be honest and have fun. Focus on people who like you instead, since they're the ones with taste.

Alexis · January 19, 2007 at 06:00 PM

Emily,

I was rather shocked that someone would leave such a comment on your blog! I do not understand why they think those things about your writing. I personally find your blog one of the nicest, most cheerful and creatively stimulating ones on the internet! You are a very unique gal, all your "quirks" and such add up to make one very beautiful and talented young lady!! Don't worry about people who say these mean things--they aren't worth it. You're loved and admired by a great many people!! Keep up your lovely blogging--I would be quite sad if you ever even considered stopping!! ;)

Casey · January 19, 2007 at 06:12 PM

it's great to see you featured on rare bird finds today! here's to your continuing success!

rachzel · January 19, 2007 at 06:16 PM

Don't let the turkeys get you down.

Mimi · January 19, 2007 at 06:18 PM

"Imagination is more important than knowledge" is one of my favorite quotes(by Albert Einstein).The imaginative play you promote in your world is exactly what I do in my own home. I hope to raise 2 creative little girls the way ,obviously,your mommy raised you!

jungle dream pagoda · January 19, 2007 at 06:19 PM

Someone accused me of copying them in my blog comments recently. They also got a friend to leave a snarky comment telling me that my work was unoriginal. I messaged them and explained that I'd never seen their work before. There were similarities, but really minor so as not to warrant a 'copying' tag. After messaging them, they wrote back saying that they didn't really think I had copied them and that they were having a bad day. No mention of 'sorry I upset you so much', nuthin.

All this is to say that people can be very strange. Don't let this one get to you.

Shell · January 19, 2007 at 06:23 PM

I really enjoy and appreciate your writing and your vibe. I also have respect fot the fact that you've not edited this seemingly negative comment and given us as readers a chance to think about it. And as a result just look at all the positive comments and hearts that have come as a result!
Keep writing I'm addicted! haha

andrea · January 19, 2007 at 06:27 PM

I suspect that the negative poster just wanted attention to her (poor) knock-off artsy blog. The fact that she also has an etsy shop with stuff for sale just seems like too much of a coincidence. I think she was trying to direct your readers to her blog. Lame.

MamaDona · January 19, 2007 at 06:38 PM

My Dear Emily,
Please don't take negative people to heart... they are sad creatures unhappy in their own life that only deserve our pity.

I've been a lurker to your blog after discovering what you offer on Etsy. I think you are a charming delightful person. Your work and your home are lovely... darling actually, and I'm sure the essence of who you are!

Cheers,
Carolyn

carolyn · January 19, 2007 at 06:40 PM

just keep letting the little bird in your heart sing it's sweet tune, my dear. This world is full of people that need to put others back in(what they deem) their place in order to feel better about their own inadequacies, therefore really saying more about the person making the obnoxious comments that it does the person being discussed. I *love* reading your posts and looking at all your gorgeous images. xoxo big time back at ya!

Kylie · January 19, 2007 at 06:40 PM

This made me annoyed enough to de-lurk, so you know its big. ;)

I actually had to go back and re-read your post to try and understand the mean comment. Now, its kind of obvious: witty, clever girls who live outside the box have always been seen as "snobby". People are mean when they are jealous, and I'm sure all these positive comments about you won't make that affliction any better.

Love your aesthetic, and I totally agreed about the *little too modern* stuff. Your work rocks, and so does this blog.

Arianne · January 19, 2007 at 06:52 PM

Hi Emily. I am just another admirer coming out of the woodwork to say how much I LOVE your art, and how much I enjoy reading your blog. Keep doing what your doing, I find your work and words inspiring.

Kate · January 19, 2007 at 07:00 PM

who was it? we can just load their emails with spam, threats and 100% negativity!! Because thats what Clive would do...

shannon · January 19, 2007 at 07:01 PM

Hello Emily,

I don't feel compelled to leave comments often but because someone felt the need to poo-poo over your lovely corner of the universe, I had to let you know how much I adore your blog (another daily reader) and look forward to all the fun, quirky, smart and crafty things you have to show/say. Keep on rockin'

lilly · January 19, 2007 at 07:02 PM

Emily,
As I sit here at my offide job, wearing a "I Love Nerds" t-shirt under my thrifted, vintage argyle sweater, I feel compelled to tell you that I think you are positively swell. I read your blog because it's got an authentic voice. you share what you are passionate about and are disarmingly nonchalant about how talented you really are. No worries about that horrid little comment maker. She probably thinks a hipster is a type of jeans-lol. Keep being you, hon. Tons of us appreciate you for exactly who you are.

Rachel · January 19, 2007 at 07:03 PM

u am who u am.. and that's a pretty wonderful someone to be.. celebrate your uniqueness... i'm loving it!! Hugs...Kat

Kat · January 19, 2007 at 07:18 PM

Well I think you are just lovely as you are.
: )

lyn · January 19, 2007 at 07:18 PM

People are interesting aren't they? Often I wonder if they aren't just scared to see someone enjoying who they are so much, I think it becomes challenging for them...and they freak out! Well...I for one would not visit daily if I didn't love your posts, and sweet personality...and everything that makes your blog so fun to visit...So Pooh-Pooh!

sadira · January 19, 2007 at 07:25 PM

Oh my goodness, it's funny how the world goes round and round. I, like some others commenting, was also bullied by a heckler. I got sad, responded, then deleted it all. Basically, it sucks. But more so, I was pissed that I LET it piss me off. But, it was good for me in the end...reminded me to keep trying to "get thicker skin". It takes courage to put yourself and your life out there. (I think most of the hecklers are much too scared to even try.)

much love,
amanda

amanda bel · January 19, 2007 at 07:27 PM

Hi Emily,
I think Miss Nasty unknowingly did a GOOD thing -- her post got a lot of us admiring lurkers to post! Life is short -- ignore anyone trying to bring you down. ((HUGS))

jenny · January 19, 2007 at 07:33 PM

Not nice. I would scowl and fling little vintage buttons at the screen of my laptop with an old rubber book strap, while I sip tea from a giant cup and adjust my vaguely hipster glasses to scowl at the bits of undeserved unlovely amongst all this warmth. Not nice, indeed.

You are sweet as pie, dear as a tiny little bunny button, and we're lucky you let us in to your wondrous little world.

karaalison · January 19, 2007 at 07:37 PM

Ahhh rude people.. what's with them anyway? Lets just ignore them.

pam · January 19, 2007 at 07:55 PM

i was reminded of a lovely little quote after reading about the unpleasant post you received. it always makes me happy. i hope it makes you happy too.

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind." dr. seuss

please know that you are special. and i like so many others love reading your blog and getting a glimpse into the wonderful little world you have created for yourself.

melissa · January 19, 2007 at 08:05 PM

That poor, poor Anna. With nothing more delightful to do, she criticizes one who fills her time with creativity and wonder. Tsk, tsk. Find a hobby, Anna. You're clearly out of fun.

Kat · January 19, 2007 at 08:26 PM

Its funny...I was reading a passage in this book today about how one shouldn't fight anger with anger, or hatred with hatred, but instead with love.

Its hard...and its been a challenge for me to apply it to my life, but I think there's a certain truth to it.

Sometimes, when people feel the need to be so outwardly insensitive and rude, I try to wonder how sad they must feel inside to need to do something like that to make themselves feel better. All we can do is hope that one day, they won't feel so bitter towards someone who is different from themselves.

I love your blog, and please dont let those words get you down. There are so many things to be happy about. Keep doing what you're doin!

Susanna · January 19, 2007 at 08:29 PM

This is a classic example of the teeter-tooter theory. Some people think that if they push you down, they will go up. But happily, the world doesn't operate that way.

The world is a big merry-go-round and the more positive pushes you give to others, the faster you will fly when it is your turn on the big wheel of life.

You are an original, engaging, nerdy writer...and you are perfect just as you are. Your cleverness, compassion and thoughtful view of the world are what keeps the legions of us coming back for more.

Big squeeze!

cricket · January 19, 2007 at 08:44 PM

IT IS TOUGH AT THE TOP! YOUR REVIVING A GENRE NOT SEEN SINCE THE 60'S WHETHER YOU KNOW IT OR NOT....AND SOME PEOPLE WILL BE ENVIOUS.WITHOUT THE ROUGH HOW CAN YOU TRUELY ENJOY THE SMOOTH.

I STARTED TWO SHOPS/BUSINESSES WITHIN THE LAST 3 YEARS AND WITHOUT HARDSHIP AND CRITISISM I WOULD NOT HAVE THE DRIVE I HAVE TODAY.

WITHOUT CRITISISM WE BECOME COMPLACENT, USE THIS TO FUEL GREATER THINGS.

REGARDS,MICHELLE PARRISH
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Michelle Parrish · January 19, 2007 at 08:45 PM

De-lurking to echo much of the above - you rock!

SoulCradler · January 19, 2007 at 08:52 PM

Dearest Emily,

Don't let one envious and opinionated girl get you down!

You know you rock! Just look at all these people that come visit your blog every single day just to get a glimpse of the way you celebrate life. Thousands of people hearts you and your shop. Stay true and beautiful! Have an awesome weekend!

Love,
Sonya

Sonya · January 19, 2007 at 08:58 PM

Dear Emily

we have this proverb in France " la bave du crapaud n'atteint pas la blanche colombe" ( the toad can't spit on the white dove)
It means that you shouldn't get concerned by what bad people try to say about you...

I love your blog and your style, please stay truly yourself :)

del4yo · January 19, 2007 at 09:07 PM

i find you to be altogether refreshing and sincere. viva la quirky!

Ky · January 19, 2007 at 09:07 PM

Reminds me of one of my favorite quotes:

"If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning." -Catherine Aird-

And like momma said...

"If you can't say anything nice...."

Cindy · January 19, 2007 at 09:33 PM

thats why so many different flavours of cupcakes were invented..to ensure everyone had their favourites and could enjoy them. keep being you...share as much as you want..and using what was said above..if you can't stand the peanutbutter and honey cupcakes...switch bakeries..or something like that.

i need a cupcake now.

ps. you're great.
pps. im not drunk...just loving your blog :)

lau x

Laura · January 19, 2007 at 09:34 PM

well said.

boo to drama + mean people.

hugs to my cute friend, emily. :D

joleen · January 19, 2007 at 09:35 PM

yet another lurker making herself visible to say that i'm addicted to your blog and your delightful writing (and i'm not even a crafter...yet!).

oh, and your self-portrait photos are the best, too.

keep writing. you brighten my days.

kay · January 19, 2007 at 10:03 PM

Dear Emily,
I am old enough to be your mom(44) and gifted my daughter (21) with one of your wonderful creations this Christmas.
Being open and sharing yourself- will always leave you open to "negative" feedback.
Taking it to heart, will only derail where your energies should be , which is right where you already have them =)
Keep shining beautiful soul
Namaste,
MB

MaryBeth · January 19, 2007 at 10:23 PM

I think you're a darling.
You'll always have critics and for sure you'll never please everyone.

Oh, and you won't believe the compliments I got on your christmas cards that I sent out.

Donna · January 19, 2007 at 10:24 PM

Long time lurker, first time poster. =0)
Please don't listen to butt-heads. I've been reading your blog since I found it a little while after seeing your stuff on Etsy. I found myself looking there just to see what new thing you had up for sale. I plan on buying something of yours one of these days. I wish I was you. You are doing everything I'm afraid to do. I love your style, love your art. For me, you are awsome. (don't worry, I'm not a pysco-staker or anything) Anyway, people are a*%@holes when they are jealous. Please, just keep being you. That's what I like about you.

cshell · January 19, 2007 at 10:27 PM

Snobbish? Insanity.

I have been a very quiet fan of your site, and writing, and art ~ for quite a long time now. I've never been up for commenting till now (though I almost did over those adorable lunch trays!)

Seriously, I don't know what that person's been smokin' because I find you in entirety to be utterly refresing. And I must say I hold people to pretty high and I must admit sometimes overly critical standards.

Keep on sparklin'
*twinkle twinkle*

FishberryJam · January 19, 2007 at 10:48 PM

Your blog is lovely. Your finding beauty and whimsy in the everyday is one reason why I keep coming back to read.

Keep up the fantastic work :-)

Abigail · January 19, 2007 at 11:14 PM

Emily,
Just a thought. We know you know who you are. We admire that you know who are and that you were a big enough person to openly address the attacker commenter. But, I was thinking about paths and destiny and signs that show us that we are doing the right thing with our little lives. Look at all this love, had someone not posted something harsh then all the love would have never been put down like this, in black and white. And, wow, look at all of this love!!! I know you must feel kind of invaded because your blog is you, it is like a bad stranger in your home. However, you truly show your strength by allowing us all to voice our opinions and talk openly about this. It strikes a chord of things we all have probably been through, hence, the loads of compassion. More huggable clouds your way. And, shiny paths shining through...

Vanessa · January 19, 2007 at 11:44 PM

Emily,

Please ignore people like that. I think all of us geeky, crafty, creative types run into folks once in a while that shoot us down with negative words. Best not to listen to them. They just don't get it, and frankly, they never will.

Your blog, since I've uncovered it, has been a daily joy in my life. What a comfort to read and see proof that there is another girlie out there just like me! She's crafty (and crazily so), a splendid artist, oh-so-stylish, and quite the trend-setter (but not one to follow the trends--no, the trends follow HER). You, my dear, are an inspiration. While others may look to the "great masters" for divine artistic intervention, I look to you.

Rock on, Emily. Rock on.

--Michelle :)

Eggman Studios · January 20, 2007 at 12:01 AM

I think you are just about the biggest-hearted, warmest, most inclusive person in craft-blog-dom. Your openness and honesty make this blog feel so welcoming ... even when you aren't necessarily feeling cheery. Obviously, Anna just felt left out and didn't realize your arms are open to all of us. Even her. Especially her. Because this is the place, more than any other, where those of us that feel a little out of place elsewhere, will always feel right at home.

futuregirl · January 20, 2007 at 12:19 AM

You know what? We love you! You just keep on being you. You do your thing, which is wonderful. I for one am happy that you share your life and your unique vision (i.e. your opinions, your art, your aesthetic) with us.

Maritza · January 20, 2007 at 12:30 AM

The "hipster" scene is just as judgmental as any other group and some people just get miffed and confuse the genuine article (ie. you) with the followers. I have friends who are crazy and different and dorky and I have friends who just try to be that way to seem more interesting. Just think of it as a big misunderstanding. Somehow she missed what you're really about.

Anon · January 20, 2007 at 12:44 AM

I love you! Don't feed the trolls.

Jill · January 20, 2007 at 12:44 AM

That person is just sour grapes. I love you and EVERYONE else who reads your blog loves you to! You are such an amazing individual...keep it up!

Cerella · January 20, 2007 at 01:02 AM

I adore you! Don't change your blog and don't let it bug you. When I read her comment it just made me laugh. She clearly is not hip enough to get you! :) :)
Susan

Susan · January 20, 2007 at 01:29 AM

OMG! What happened! The comment ABOVE the one that said my name was mine. I posted that it was cool that he got excited about the lunch tray and that you were a lucky girl. The comment that had my name on it was NOT mine! I would NEVER say something like that! I can't believe this would happen. How is this possible?
-Rachelle

RAchelle · January 20, 2007 at 02:27 AM

YIKES! Please everyone that is leaving comments on my blog, I was NOT the one who posted the mean-spirited comments about Emily. If you check back you'll see that it was Anna. I feel so bad about this.
-Rachelle

RAchelle · January 20, 2007 at 02:30 AM

And I am so bummed that someone would say something like that to you Emily! I've lurked on your blog for months and only recently started posting. I love the inspiration and awe your blog and art bring me daily. I also think it is SO COOL that so many lurkers have come out to support you. Rock on!
-Rachelle

RAchelle · January 20, 2007 at 02:41 AM

Dear Emily~ You are young enough to be this 45 year olds daughter and I adore your blog, your personality that comes out and everything you share. Your art is devine. I find you to be like a little breath of fresh air, and I just love looking at all of the things you find and all the websites you share. Sounds to me like someone may have been a bit jealous of your style.

(((big hugs from me)))
Teresa

Teresa Sheeley · January 20, 2007 at 03:01 AM

Emily please don't ignore Annas comments but don't let them upset you either.In life we come across people all the time who just don't get us or we don't get.I'm sure you can use her comments to your advantage.She really doesn't have to like you for your life to be good and you really don't need everybodies approval to validate yourself!Just be!!!!

Kristy · January 20, 2007 at 03:37 AM

Dear Emily,
Don't ever start to doubt yourself for one second,you bring people so much joy with what you do.Look at all the shy people that have been quietly enjoying your blog for so long and now come out of their own little worlds to stand up for you!You bring people together and that is what the world should do more!Be proud, we all are!xoxo Desirée

Desirée · January 20, 2007 at 04:11 AM

I love how this as brought so many of your admirers out of the woodwork :) We like you just the way you are x

ysolda · January 20, 2007 at 05:05 AM

WOW - I just can't believe anyone would find fault with you. You are one big ball of awesomeness and your work, your pictures, the way you write . . . it's all so fascinating and wonderful. I don't often comment here, but I have been lurking for a very long time.

Poo-poo to that person, whoever it was. The rest of us just adore you!

Melissa R. Garrett · January 20, 2007 at 08:07 AM

Funny, since we love the things about you that you put in your blog. My wife (Dina) says she wants to be just like you!!

peter · January 20, 2007 at 08:20 AM

Dear lovely girl
I feel lucky to have come across you site and your work- at your age your accomplishments are a rare thing, and your generosity of spirit rarer still. If nothing else that mean-spirited, dismissive post gave lots of people- friends, acquaintances and strangers like myself the excuse to let you know how special you are to so many folks!

Anyagirl · January 20, 2007 at 08:36 AM

love the photo...and all that you offer! thanks. :)

beshka · January 20, 2007 at 08:58 AM

Hi Emily!

I say "Ditto!" as well to all the good feelings from the above comments. I really enjoy your blog, both in content and aesthetics. You know who you are and that's a wonderful thing.

Not everyone is going to like us or our work or what we say or do. But we can choose our actions and our reactions to negative criticism. I once read that everyone we come in contact with should be looked upon as a teacher. Although at times that seems a crazy thought, it does help to put things in perspective. And if that doesn't work, just remember that every party has a pooper.

X
Megan

Megan · January 20, 2007 at 09:11 AM

I have always enjoyed reading and seeing how you are doing and what you are up to...it makes ME feel more normal and at ease...like you were saying about not knnowing too many people with the smae interests. WE are the lucky ones to get to peek inside your life, and thank you for granting that. I hope you have a great weekend!

Mary Contrary · January 20, 2007 at 09:14 AM

It amazes me that someone would critique you on your own blog. Do these people have nothing better to do?

Blog reading should be fun and inspiring and people CHOOSE to do it. If you are a hipster then well join the club, because what can we do! She is jealous of your wonderful talent and amazing personality.

Jessica · January 20, 2007 at 09:35 AM

Emily, my friend Michelle and I read your blog everyday. We always say, "If Emily lived by us, we'd make sure she was our friend." We like you because you are 100% authentic and original. So keep doing what you're doing and ignore the small minded. Remember that real artists always have to deal with detractors and this person probably won't be the last, but you will just keep being true to yourself and your art and keep on. Many best wishes!!!

tiffany · January 20, 2007 at 09:44 AM

Wow, this is the 2nd post I've read this week by one of my beloved blog buddies that had to address someone's snarky & rude comments. I do not understand why people feel like they have the right to criticize & act negatively to someone they do not know. If you don't like what someone writes on their blog, DON'T READ IT! How hard is that? But my thoughts towards those who do this is that it's their loss. If they are so unhappy in their own lives that they feel empowered by cutting others down, then that is their problem. They are missing out on so much happiness in this otherwise not so happy society that we live in. So cheers to being yourself. That's why all of us love you & come here daily to peek into your little world Em. Keep up the fabulously YOU blogging & creating!!! (can you tell this fires me up???)

Jessica · January 20, 2007 at 09:46 AM

I think somebody just learned some new words - that's all that was, Emily. What a bizarre comment to make unless you patently "don't get it" And she "don't get it".

love, Mx

Melanie Carmichael · January 20, 2007 at 09:55 AM

Don't worry, RAchelle. Of course it wasn't you, sweet girl. Just a mix-up on whether to attribute the comment to the name above or below. You're a dear. :)

karaalison · January 20, 2007 at 10:18 AM

hey i totally agree with you. i am a fan of your blog and arts. i check your blog daily because i feel a great connection you are an exciting girl and you remind me of me. there arent that many people like us so this blog is a wonderful way to feel connected to people. keep on being you and don't stop. God has awesome plans for you.

lOve,kim*

kim* · January 20, 2007 at 10:42 AM

LOVE your blog! you are so creative and just plain fun! your blog is a daily spot that i check out~always something interesting to read and/or look at. Thanks for being you!

kellye · January 20, 2007 at 11:12 AM

Oh, Emily...it's been a whirlwind already for 2007, huh? But I have to agree with every heart here, esp. Kristy of Vintage Pleasure when she poignantly said "...don't ignore Anna's comments but don't let them upset you either...you can use her comments to your advantage...you don't need anyone's approval...just be..." How true...by Anna's comments, I think it would make anyone feel sad but you've written a great post to defy her opinions about you...this is YOUR journal of YOUR life and how fortunate are we to celebrate a piece of YOU everyday???

Anna may think your words are "snobby" or that you're just a "hipster" but the fact is your fascinating blog has truly conjured up an ARMY of creative and talented individuals who adore you, believe in you and have and will always support your amazing creations and your beautiful true self. You say you're a dork, but I disagree...you're quite charming and you captivate so many hearts with your intriguing life and alluring creations!

Anna's comments have made you even stronger because instead of deleting her comment, you've shared it with us...that takes strength & courage to even deal with negativity...and accentuate the POSITIVE! BRAVISIMO for taking the higher road!!!

Thank you for sharing this post with all of us...I think anyone who visits you is smitten with you and to me, you always inspire me to do something great...that's the type of impression you leave in my heart...

Please...don't let one "bad apple" spoil your slice of heaven...one of your many heartfelt admirers, jo

jo · January 20, 2007 at 11:19 AM

I've been reading your blog for several months now, and while I'll admit that I don't always agree with your opinions (about, say movies), I do like to read what you have to say. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and I absolutely agree with you that if someone isn't interested in yours, then they shouldn't read your blog. Simple enough, no? If everyone agreed all the time, or thought the very same thoughts, then the world would be a mighty boring place! My mom used to say "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." I think that's good advice that everyone should remember. You communicate yourself very well, and you have such a positive spirit. That's what I like best about your blog. Keep it up!

~April

Oh, one more thing. My DAD always says that you should give yourself a present everyday. --whether it's just a cup of coffee, a bubble bath, or whatever. Kindness begins with how you treat yourself. Give yourself a present today, Emily, and feel good about the person you are. We like you very much around here.

April · January 20, 2007 at 11:23 AM

i love you, your blog and your work in it's entirety and i'm sending you a big virtual hug, and asking that you never never change.

sarah · January 20, 2007 at 11:29 AM

Hi Emily, I'm new to blogs but indirectly found you from rosie-posie. I'm learning that this is my first time "lurking" (what a concept) in your blog. I'm "delurking" (is that right?) to say, I'm not sure who decides what words are appropriate to describe one's self, but why do they care enough to point it out? I don't get it. Bleh, I hate when people can't just accept people and toss away what they don't care for and move on without comment or just leave and don't come back if offended.
Oops, I gotta quit, I'm starting to blog on your blog! See ya later!

Angela Haselton · January 20, 2007 at 12:04 PM

What a snarky comment to leave. If that person didn't like your post then she should have done the polite thing and leave your site without commenting. Blogs are by definition a personal thing and can be whatever the author deems right.

I agree with you about not having a lot of real-life friends who are as into all the sewing goodies as the ones that we get to meet via the crafty blogs. (Although I do get to visit with crafty ladies at my monthly doll club meeting.) It's a nice way to connect and show how pleased we are with something that we created. How can that possibly be "hipster"? Besides, why is that term considered derogatory nowadays?

I would just ignore it ... I like visiting your blog and seeing your cute little apartment. Something about you and your stuff says "Snow White" to me. Very sweet stuff, and joyful to look at.

Tami · January 20, 2007 at 12:41 PM

You know what you like in life, what excites you.

You don't do it for anyone except yourself, but you share it with others.

You do not share it to boast or brag, but to inspire and find friends.

We are inspired and we love you, just the way you are.

allyson · January 20, 2007 at 01:17 PM

emily, i usually read your blog from bloglines...so admit i guess i am kind of a lurker. i love your art and your sense of self and style.
when people don't get it...or for some reason feel the need to share the words that run through their heads that they should just take note of and think about why it is coming up for them instead of sharing it...i hope you will take a breath and just keep being you.

i love the line about the little pocket of space. yes. i feel the same way about blog world. life can feel just a tad bit lonely sometimes, and blog world reminds me that i am not alone in my thoughts, wishes, desires, beliefs.
blessings to you...

liz elayne · January 20, 2007 at 01:49 PM

I really enjoyed reading your blog, although I had never left any comment on it. I, like you, am very happy to read someone's blog who has like-minded interest in buttons and art..even when I didn't have interest in buttons, my interest emerges just because of your lovely comment and thought. I love your personality, character, and chit-chat. Keep doing it!

oki · January 20, 2007 at 02:33 PM

I really enjoyed reading your blog, although I had never left any comment on it. I, like you, am very happy to read someone's blog who has like-minded interest in buttons and art..even when I didn't have interest in buttons, my interest emerges just because of your lovely comment and thought. I love your personality, character, and chit-chat. Keep doing it!

oki · January 20, 2007 at 02:33 PM

Blogging is like having a closeline of your personal thoughts, purchases and creations flapping in the wind next to a super highway. Right before I got on my computer, 5 minutes ago, I was talking to my aunt who is an artist about how inspired I am by blogs and since I've started reading them I haven't hit a slump in my creativity. It's hard sometimes, but the rewards are so good!

kate · January 20, 2007 at 03:02 PM

It is astonishing to me that people put any energy whatsoever into saying something negative. As others have said, if you don't like what you see, move on.

Everyone has a bad day but that never justifies going out of your way to make someone else feel as you do.

Your site is wonderful, as is your craft, art, & space. Keep it up.

ambika · January 20, 2007 at 03:05 PM

I discovered your blog a few weeks ago after finding your beautiful Etsy store / collection, and I've been reading some of the back months. It has totally inspired me to reorganize my apt., write a story about hedgehogs, and, maybe most importantly, to try even harder to follow through on my New Year's resolution to express myself in the sweetest and most positive way possible with my loved ones and even some of the difficult people I encounter in my job, who, much like some of the postal workers you encounter, can be intentionally difficult or just grumpy. SO - I know when you're putting yourself and your ideas out there in a public way, there will ALWAYS be (sometimes well-intentioned) naysayers - but, if nothing else, for all the people who find your blog to be a bastion of loveliness, disarming prose, and cuteness overload (in the best way possible) - I would just try to ignore those voices. Besides, I've decided the word hipster is really a meaningless designation. Some cute dressers are too trendy, some have a bad attitude, and some may wear the best shoes, and, let's face it, a lot of people, including me, love the shoes (even if they might be also hipsterish.) So that's my rant of encouragement!! Thanks for all the energy you put out there through this odd medium!

Heather · January 20, 2007 at 03:37 PM

Hi Emily, some people aren't worth bothering about and she is one of them, no doubt she's just jealous. You are so talented and creative a really special person, keep being you, Big Hugs xxx.

Rhian Dennis · January 20, 2007 at 04:13 PM

people can only hurt you if you let them.

arlene · January 20, 2007 at 04:31 PM

Hi Emily, I really love your blog. The response you've received gives me faith in kindness. Thanks for sharing your blog with us. x

Catherine · January 20, 2007 at 04:58 PM

Yep, I am officially de-lurked.

I think Anna must have been having a very bad day. (Trying to give her the benefit of the doubt here).

I personally find your blog warm, funny and entertaining. Your artwork is beautiful and very inspiring. Keep on doing what you are doing and don't be discouraged. Your blog makes a lot of people happy :)

Sweet Pea · January 20, 2007 at 06:02 PM

Hi there,

I've been reading your blog for about six months, and I am SO loving it... I adore your zest for life and your sense-of-humour, particularly how you can see outside of yourself. Life can be tough in so many ways and you see beauty in the small things, a scrap of fabric, the outline of a paper bird.

We should be collectively grateful for your positive outlook, and I for one am richer for reading your musings, thoughts and laughter streaming through cyberspace!

Keep it up,

Jules :-)

Jules · January 20, 2007 at 06:56 PM

Your blog is wonderful! I think your style is great. And it's great to read your blog and see what fellow dorks are up too. So keep it up!

Jennalee · January 20, 2007 at 07:59 PM

Gee, I miss one day of reading your blog and I end up missing a lot. ;)

Marilyn · January 20, 2007 at 08:16 PM

Hey Emily,

I just wanted to chime in with everyone else here - I don't normally read comments (at least not regularly) and I can't believe someone had the nerve to say that to you on your blog! Your blog is one of my FAVORITES and I adore your style - you inspire me and I feel, without ever having the chance to meet you in person, you are a kindred spirit. I hope you can put such comments behind you.

xoxo

Jennifer · January 20, 2007 at 08:37 PM

I like your blog. Matter of fact it was because of you I decided to open an etsy shop. Thank you!

Janvangogh · January 20, 2007 at 09:13 PM

Dear Emily,
Do you need me to beat Anna up for you? I will, I don't usually resort to violence but this time it's on!! I was thinking of shoving her face into a dessert or something..but why waste yummy ness on someone so nasty?? hehe! I read your blog religiously! I think you are amazing and so is your little world! You are my hero!
Keep up the fantastic work and keep being who you are :)
P.s. I am so glad you loved Pan's Labyrinth! I agree it was a bit gory..but Altogether it was magnifico!
hugs
-Sarah

Heavyeyeliner · January 20, 2007 at 10:57 PM

I wish I had the time to read all the comments you've rec, but I gotta say I'm a little more than surprised and disappointed at the new trend of negative commenting and personal dissing (I've recently seen it other places as well). Emily, don't change a thing, about yourself, or your little space here. I know you won't and that's what I love about you. I could go on and on about this, but let me say that you are one of my favorite bloggers, of all time. Honestly.

And I don't care for snobby types.

xoxoxox

Blair · January 20, 2007 at 11:17 PM

Emily, I have a confession to make. Like Anna, I am completely jealous of you! However i'm also inspired, excited, informed, entertained and delighted by you and your presence here on the web. I've met nasty girls before in my life, they used to upset me but now I just feel sorry for them for it must be awful to be full of such negative thoughts. You're beautiful and we all love you. Yes, i'm kinda jealous of you, but in a nice way that makes me so happy when i'm reading your blog and inspired to also do crafty things!

This next bit of my post has nothing really to do with Emily, but more to some of the readers of her blog....

I MUST comment on something because this really bothers me. All those people who left nasty comments on poor Rachelle's blog as just as bad as Anna. And to do so anonymously shows what a coward they are. OK, done.

It is wonderful to see how many people are supporting you Emily, please keep on blogging and don't change a thing!

Suzie

Suzie · January 21, 2007 at 05:30 AM

I've been lurking here for the past few days...and coincidentally someone slammed me in my comments yesterday.
She took offense at something I wrote and left a couple of comments and then moved on to emailing me.
I defended my words for a little while and then realized that it was silly.
These spaces tend to be the only place where we can really just BE. Snarky or funny or angry or bitter or ANYTHING...if people don't like it - they should click away.
I'm sure all 127 of the comments before me said that same thing - I just thought I'd de-lurk and tell you that I know how you feel.
- looking forward to reading you in the future...

blackbird · January 21, 2007 at 01:21 PM

I have been reading your blog and observing your shop for quite a few months now and so often I find my own thoughts and opinions coming out through your words. It's amazing to have someone also revel in the things I sometimes feel nobody else knows about.

I'm an Australian just moved to America so the isolation from people I know is a little daunting, it would make me so joyful if I could ever make friends with someone just like you.

Nicole · January 22, 2007 at 03:52 PM

WOW. I can't believe someone would go out of their way to put someone down VIA THE INTERNET. I come across people EVERYDAY who are just unhappy, bitter people who just thrive on putting other people down. What is with that? I have never EVER, however, seen it done on a blog before. That is just...pathetic. My comment to that reader is that if you don't like a blog, don't bookmark it, don't ever read it again, and go on your way. That isn't so hard is it? No one is forcing anyone to read this blog or any other. Please spare us of your negativism. We enjoy our little button-loving community and we shouldn't be made to feel as though we have to defend it against the likes of you.

Tomoe · January 22, 2007 at 04:39 PM

I noticed the comment you mention here when I left my comment on the same entry, and felt it best to ignore it. I love your blog, therefore I visit quite frequently, and found the mean-spirited comment to be quite a shock.

In short, you are lovely, and sweet (as far as I can tell virtually) and absolutely the kind of person who does not deserve to be shot down by someone you have never met before. ;)

Nichole · January 22, 2007 at 06:32 PM

I think you are simply charming. I love stopping by and checking in to see what you are up to. you have a lovely little blog. :)

amandajean · January 22, 2007 at 08:40 PM

Emily,I love your blog and your art and all of the lovely things you come up with. I think you are just great!

Michele Annette · January 23, 2007 at 10:53 AM

Personally, I think your blog is 10 times better than anything on a newstand at the grocery store. Your writing is charming and yet disarmingly quirky and endearing.

Unlike the Cosmo mag formula of blathering on about "Bikini Diets,"101 Ways to Wow Him in Bed," and "10 Fashion Must Haves That You Must Buy So You Can Look Like everyone Else And We Can Get Paid By Advertisers," you've actually cultivated your own sense of style and artistic aesthetic. Quite frankly, if popular culture had more thoughtful people like you writing and creating art, we probably wouldn't have all this silly anorexic/drug addict nonsense. If people are threatened by your talent, too bad for them!

-- an early 20 something girl who is really irritated with pop culture and thinks your blog is just great.

20SomethingHyacinth · January 23, 2007 at 11:34 PM

I have been without my internet world for days now due to computer nonsense in the move to being home and working form here.....

Glad to see you addressed this, you are a doll.

stilettoheights · January 24, 2007 at 11:05 AM

i love this post.

i recently got a comment like that that somewhat took me off guard, not understanding my blog or sense of humour or undetstanding what i was really saying. made me sad.

but there are so many more joys in blogging than sadnesses. keep on emily. love reading your thoughts and seeing all your little creations.

michelle · January 25, 2007 at 07:34 PM

Dear Darling Emily,

I am absolutely enchanted by you every time I read your blog or ogle over your wondrous stuff on esty. You rock girlfriend!

Don't change or edit anything here. People with nasty opinions need to mind their P&Q's and keep it to themselves. Don't let it get you down or cause you to question anything about who you are.

You are an inspiration.

Hugs,
Rebecca

knittygirlie · January 26, 2007 at 02:18 PM